Music Information

Piano Lessons and Perfectionism


Are you a perfectionist? Does every note have to sound right before it comes out of your piano? If so, you might be cheating yourself out of the joy of music making. Most of us learned how to be perfectionists as children, trying to please Mommy or Daddy. We wanted their approval so we tried to get it right.

In the process, we learned that getting it right meant giving up happiness. It wasn't enough that we could express ourselves musically. We had to do a good job of it as well. As good as we could make it. Getting all the notes right. Trying to please music teachers who could care less if we were enjoying ourselves. All for what? To get a grade or a "that's good?"

It's a shame but this happens all the time in music schools. It's not until we become adults that we realize the damage that has been done. By then, it's usually too late and most never pick up an instrument again. What a pity that is. What a shame that we all must create to someone's standard of what good is. And worst of all, when you finally achieve that high standard, you are told that it is never good enough anyway.

The way out of this perfectionist's rut is to let go of the need to please others and refocus on pleasing ourselves. Now there is room to make mistakes and explore what art really is - namely EXPLORATION OF THE UNKNOWN! Here is where the real adventure begins my friends. Here is where excitement truly is! Not knowing what is going to happen next. Not judging what comes out of us but being beholders of it all.

Improvisation is the key that unlocks this door. It is the one art form that is invention from one moment to the next. Experience the joy of improvisation and all need to get things right disappears. Just for a moment you feel like the music is playing you. Isn't that enough?

Edward Weiss is a pianist/composer and webmaster of Quiescence Music's online piano lessons. He has been helping students learn how to play piano in the New Age style for over 14 years and works with students in private, in groups, and now over the internet. Stop by now at http://www.quiescencemusic.com/piano_lessons.html for a FREE piano lesson!


MORE RESOURCES:

Javno.hr

Getting to Carnegie via YouTube
New York Times, United States - 11 hours ago
That second option is the main feature of a new marketing project by Google to bolster the organized presence of classical music on YouTube and promote the ...
Thomas signs on for YouTube symphony project San Francisco Chronicle
Classical musicians get shot at fame on YouTube Reuters
Bedroom Bach? YouTube starts a cyber symphony The Associated Press
Toronto Star - Telegraph.co.uk
all 195 news articles


BBC News

Bono Launches Digital Music Service as AIDS Charity
People Magazine - 10 hours ago
In honor of World AIDS Day on Monday, Bono launched the digital music service (RED)WIRE, the music offshoot of his (RED) charity, featuring exclusive songs ...
World's Greatest Artists Help Launch (RED)WIRE, (RED)(TM)'s New ... MarketWatch
Bono Gets the (RED) Out for World AIDS Day E! Online
Music service will help fight Aids The Press Association
Malaysia Star - Queerty
all 127 news articles


Boston Globe

BSO launches its own music download service
Boston Globe, United States - 4 hours ago
Four albums of music created under the baton of BSO music director James Levine will be available in February. (Michael J. Lutch) By Geoff Edgers After ...
Marketing style leaves maestro miffed Toronto Star
all 3 news articles


Online seen claiming 41 pct share of US music market
Reuters - 9 hours ago
LOS ANGELES (Reuters) - Digital music sales account for 18 percent of the US music market and that figure will grow to 41 percent in five years, ...
Music Industry Decline Accelerates U.S. News & World Report
Digital music to drastically grow by 2013 CD Freaks.com
all 18 news articles


Singersroom News

Music retailers report bleak sales on Black Friday
Reuters - 7 hours ago
By Ed Christman NEW YORK (Billboard) - Music merchandisers weren't sharing the general optimism of most retailers during Thanksgiving weekend. ...
Kanye, Guns N' Roses Post Slow Debut-Week Sales Billboard
Kanye West To Receive Slow 'Heartbreak' Debut ? Singersroom News
News & Reviews Billboard
all 14 news articles


Chris Brown a big hit with on-demand viewers
The Associated Press - 10 hours ago
The TV on-demand service Music Choice said Monday the soul singer was its most requested artist in a one-year period ending in September. ...


Washington Post

Verge Ensemble Celebrates Carter, Mumford
Washington Post, United States - 2 hours ago
Carter has produced a wide variety of chamber music for both standard genres and unique mixed ensembles. Verge presented works dating from 1949 through 2006 ...
Insane Skillz: Guy Beats Guitar Hero III with Drums PC World
As Gas Prices Fall, Transit Still Popular Washington Post
Room at the Top for More Diversity Washington Post
PC World
all 78 news articles


New Music Download Site - PositiveMusicandDownloads.com ...
MarketWatch - 19 hours ago
"Too often the industry has dictated what type of music we should be listening too. Artists who have a more positive message can't always get past music ...


Monsters and Critics.com

Costello and friends in a fine 'Spectacle'
Philadelphia Inquirer, PA - 2 hours ago
But the show is far from incestuous, unless you consider its guests all united in the family of music. Lou Reed (He speaks! He's funny! ...
Elvis Costello puts serious eye on music in Sundance Channel's ... New York Daily News
Music on TV This Week: Spectacle Film.com
Elvis Costello's new TV show 'Spectacle' offers different look at ... The Canadian Press
Hartford Courant - Chicago Daily Herald
all 127 news articles


Personal Tech: Music lovers have lots of portable options
Salt Lake Tribune, United States - 9 hours ago
AP The Microsoft Zune sports a touch pad and sharp screen that make it easy and fun to check out all your music, photos and videos. ...

Music - Google News

home | site map
© 2006